Notes on "The Language of Choice Theory"
symptoms and complaints are viewed as creative ways individuals choose to deal with current relationship problems (anger, headaches, depression) (the author of what I'm reading didn't say "ice cream", but I think that is my creative go to ...).
"coercing, controlling, relationship destroying psychology used when having difficulty getting along with someone else" (Glasser 2003)
- one is made to behave
- you can control someone
- we know what's right for all
- rewarding to control
- negotiating differences